Toddlerhood is a masterclass in gaman. This phase teaches: (1) endure the repetition — the same question asked forty times, the same book read every night, the same tantrum at the same trigger — repetition is the terrain, and gaman is how you walk it, (2) lower your expectations for productivity — your output will be less. Your presence is enough, and (3) remember this is a season — intense, exhausting, and temporary. Mono no aware applies here too.

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